1. Vague.
2. You'll need to modify the CSS to have it adjusted the way you want it to be. Whether if it's the css/tabs.css file or the theme CSS file itself.
3. This has been asked a few times before. Try the search feature next time.
http://www.mysidiaadoptables.com/for...ead.php?t=2060
4. Vague.
5. I think this has been answered already in the other thread you posted.
6. Likewise with #5.