Edited the theme alot but...
 

http://orig06.deviantart.net/d754/f/..._1-dbgsk8i.png
I actually don't remember where to recolor the upper menu/top links.

If you want to see ho the site looks so far, click at the small banner at my signature.

If I remember correctly it's in the home/css folder, not templates...look in there?

I found it before you telling that to me.
But thank you anyways.